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jiminycricket1 74M
5510 posts
9/28/2015 7:47 am
Who is elgible?

Well, I just got through reading the hate and love fest. but no one seems to deal with elgible......It's all about ET......love and hate about ET.
Somewhere the point of this is being lost. Who is elgible and what has elgible done?
it doesn't matter who elgible is, what she has done is offensive to everyone
It doesn't matter who elgible is, what she has done is justifiable
It matters who she is, and who she is will make it offensive
It matters and who she is who she is will make it more justifiable


Abelle2 83F
31227 posts
9/28/2015 7:54 am

I doubt it is ET so therefore, it is just another goofy day in paradise.


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
9/28/2015 8:02 am

Ann,

I don't doubt it's ET... but that not the point...
This is one of the few cases here where it doesn't matter what's behind the label, it only matters what on the label.
For the moment, ET doesn't matter and elgible does. This is about what one thinks of elgible not what one thinks of ET.
Somehow, what elgible has done has gotten lost in all the love/ hate
.


hermitinthecity 70M
1696 posts
9/28/2015 8:12 am

Which handle of who said what to which handle of whom and is who really who they say they are, or is the alias now becoming dominant and the real handle now, or has it been the real handle all along but we were not aware and it was deviously inserted to thinking the real was a fake? Stay tuned for another exciting episode of "Days of our Posts"

I've never had a problem with ET and doubt I ever will. I will always say innocent until proven guilty.

Judgment Day will be interesting - and all paths lead there.


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
9/28/2015 8:13 am

Lizst,

This is not about ET it's about elgible. I'm trying to remove ET from the equation for the moment. I want to know what people actually thought about elgible before ET.

I don't care about what people thought WHO elgible was, but WHAT she was.


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
9/28/2015 8:18 am

herm,

it's not about handle, or the person....it's about what the person does.

Does anyone think elgible was justified, that she served a purpose, that she defend their position? That she had the right. I'm curious about that


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
9/28/2015 8:23 am

thankful,

thanks...but no thanks....

can't anyone drop the ET for just a moment? just talk about elgible.


spiritwoman45

9/28/2015 9:09 am

Enough already - the horse died days ago and the vultures have picked the bones clean..

Spiritwoman ^i^


bijou624

9/28/2015 11:04 am

I think I saw Elgible at Burger King yesterday.


spiritwoman45

9/28/2015 11:20 am

    Quoting thankfulheart8:
    Vultures you say Spirit?? Really?? Pleeze we are waiting with baited breath to hear who you think the Vultures Are lol
Anyone and everyone not directly involved.
Costumes and cast changes all of the time.


Spiritwoman ^i^


lilium6 74F
4498 posts
9/28/2015 11:23 am

Having been away the past fortnight, I wasn't aware of the drama concerning ET. I agree with Spiritwoman's stark statement on the matter. I too like ET (I hope this finds you well if reading this). More importantly, what ever happened to Cock Robin?

* Sorry, I know this blog isn't supposed to be about ET


Robyn363 83F
3474 posts
9/28/2015 11:24 am

Well Jiminy, IM eligible, and of course you are. Im also a lady of the highest degree, ET is and I dont have a clue what this is about as I dont feel the need to come i n here any more.


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
9/28/2015 11:52 am

daydreambeliever,

thank for attempting to at least answer the question.

Everyone else here cannot separate elgible from their notion of who she is..

Panther to ET.....
"What a pathetic old hag you are!"

This was said before the revelation of ET being elgible.

With this type of discourse can we understand elgible behavior, and if we understand it can we forgive it.

There's many layers to theses things, It becomes about ET, but its a lot deeper than that.

nastiness begets nastiness.....doesn't matter who did it first

elgible is not just ET's problem...........it's all our problem

I don't want to talk about ET anymore...I want to talk about elgible.
For those of you who can't see the difference, don't even bother to answer me. Don't talk about what you can't understand.

The more I think about and deal with this.......the more intolerant I become...Not about ET, but about the rest of you folk.

lulu......you're the one that's tiresome.


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
9/28/2015 12:02 pm

you are beating your head against the wall with some folks. They honestly believe if you ignore the problem, it no longer exists.

Elgible's profile is still open, and can return to cause mayhem again. who this person is, should be found out

Dan,
Sorry I ignored your post, and you tried to answer also.

let me say this I agree with what you have said, but let's not just say ignore the problem....Let's add...PIN THE PROBLEM ON SOMEONE ELSE.


Rocketship 80F
18567 posts
9/28/2015 1:11 pm

Frankly, I don't care who 'eligible' is.

All sorts of nuts cases come and go on this site.

I think that we all joined this site to make friends and have FUN.

Why let someone with a different agenda bother you!!


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
9/28/2015 1:18 pm

Yes, that's a good way to put it.. So, how do we address the bait and switch game going on here? How do we Stop this debacle of name calling, and character assassination, when so many of the players change costumes?
[
Dan,

.
Whatever a "so called enemy" says around here, doesn't mean squat to those they speak to. It up to friends to get their friends to act reasonably. If they're your friend they will listen, if not they were never your friend in the first place.
Most importantly it doesn't matter who says it, it only matters what they say.

Panther prove my point almost time she open her mouth, I can't tell the difference between her and ET. She can justify, she can say who did it first..but I just don't care.

Maggie,
read what I say, not what you think I said. Pinning it on someone else(doesn't matter who it is) is just a way to avoid your responsibility, it justification for you to continue doing it. But of course you could never be as "bad"


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
9/28/2015 1:25 pm

Frankly, I don't care who 'eligible' is.

All sorts of nuts cases come and go on this site.

I think that we all joined this site to make friends and have FUN.

Why let someone with a different agenda bother you!!

Rocket,

It indicative of a much bigger problem....It was ET, I have no doubt
but it's just not her problem it's our problem.
As Dan said and I added...ignoring it or pinning it just on ET, isn't going to make it go away.


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
9/28/2015 1:38 pm

Frankly, I don't care who 'eligible' is.

All sorts of nuts cases come and go on this site.

I think that we all joined this site to make friends and have FUN.

Why let someone with a different agenda bother you!!

Rocket,

It indicative of a much bigger problem....It was ET, I have no doubt
but it's just not her problem it's our problem.
As Dan said and I added...ignoring it or pinning it just on ET, isn't going to make it go away.

..................................
Exactly....

lulu....Exactly, from someone that doesn't want it to go away.


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
9/28/2015 2:54 pm

Now go write some more of that God awful "poetry." panther

maisie,

I don't know about Elvis and Spartacus....but what panther said sounds awfully familiar

OMG! you must be panther, hiding behind a different handle!LMAO


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
9/28/2015 8:40 pm

Jiminiy .. I would only ask this .... HOW in the hell did YOU ever get so much in the thick of this mess??? Trying to steal some thunder? I'm having a hard time trying to figure your role in things. Too many attention seekers are coming in on the tail end of discord because that is exactly where they do their best work!
ET

Well, If you called me a drunk tonight you'd; be right. ET.. I don't give a shit about you and your cohort, or those you oppose
you're all equally to blame.
I hate this...
I don'lt have time or the inclination to try and straighten you all out.
I got you, adolpho, lulu on one side..... and
maisie and lizst, unsafe, jkh, Carolina panther on the other side
And then there's the like of thankful and Maggie and wherever the hell they fall in this whole thing
I can't win no matter how I try, or what I want to do
You guys deserve each other.....Go for it....


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
9/29/2015 6:04 am

You can't win?......Is there some contest I don't know about? What are you trying to win? Poor JC

lulu,

I'm normally the most relaxed here

yes I can't win....I knew that coming after I wrote it, but decided what the heck let it fly..I can t win trying toget you'all on the same page. y'all are the same and just don't know it. To me it's not sides, it's the same side turning on one another. Subjects don't matter, people matter.

The Chiefs lost, the Royals lost..I had few drinks and was frustrated..
Do I get a pass? or are you still trying to send me to detention.


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
9/29/2015 7:38 am

I knew you couldn't "take it"

Maggie,

Seems like you guys get on a boat and go nowhere
Up Oars!


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
9/29/2015 1:14 pm

I have seen a few try to fix SFF . I laugh because I know how it will turn out .Kerrickter who was head of abuse dept a few years ago came into chat to fix it .
Poor guy he left one day saying ...
"I am so mad I could just spit "
I still laugh at the poor guy , thinking he could fix chat .
He has sense left or been dismissed by SFF . I hope he got a job he was better at

Maggie,

I'm just one of those people who doesn't believe .....You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. I'm hard headed like that.
there's a few here I have given up on, but not all. I figure if they won't let me in front door....I'll try the backdoor