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AND NO people, I am not seeing anyone or writing most things about me.. they are writings I am doing.. they are my enjoyment of words.. Sure they can be about any of us if we are together or such, but MOST stuff is NOT about me.. NOT about YOU, not about anyone.. JUST WRITING..
Thank you for stopping in, sit if you would like as I have a fire going and am enjoying the beautiful rain. Yea, I work out in it full time and for the most part enjoy it as it give me a lot of time to think. I know, my brain is soggy, so I am guessing it maybe best I say nothing, but for sure know I will love my Miss Right like there is no tomorrow when the space ship brings her. If you are on that craft, go ahead and land as for sure we will make us a pot of coffee and I will listen until I get safe enough to talk. Hugs to you for sure. PS, what is your name?
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It appears women will tell us MEN what we think, but get upset if we speculate on what they think.
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May 20, 2011 2:49 pm
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It seems way strange.. AND you bet when I am married I am somewhat happy to ask MY WOMAN what I think.. Hell, I know they probably know more about me than I do.. I do not find most of that at all intimidating as I, or maybe men have very few wants in life.. Shoot maybe a very few a WHOLE year where often women have MANY a day.. And YEA all of you run with that statement as I am sure that can't be understood .. I am talking the WANTS here, NOT the needs.. Keep those separate as you ponder this..
BUT I hear time and time and time again .. I am not allowed to speak for or hardly even say what I feel a woman thinks or feels because I am a man.. BUT I see ALL the time if I even remotely state what I feel a MAN or MEN or I think.. I am told I can not .. do not .. should not.. or any of the other NOTS.. I can not be that way..
I am TOLD what MEN think or what I think or what WOMEN have decided is the MAN way of thinking.. then of course the NEXT big gottttta use the wannna WAY hurt slam word or phase of.. JUST a neanderthal.. LOL
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Men want a WOMAN, not a brain, not a success..
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May 20, 2011 3:29 am
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Please do not take this ALL inclusive.. sure it is NOT all men.. but seems like most, well maybe.. AND do NOT take it as hammering down ANY woman as I want YOU ALL to do and be whatever you want as I am fairly sure NONE of us care.. Feel the success or whatever you want.. It is way OK.. The ONLY one many of us care one whit about is OUR WOMAN.. So do not try to take this personal as it is NOT..
The lovely Miss bijou624 stated "Some of these men have such great careers and beautiful accomplished wives, yet they were willing to risk everything to have s*x with, ".. then she used two words, but indicated the men would enjoy LESS accomplished women.. The two words she stated was.. "domestic help and a cleaning lady".. I would say we can use any set of words, but bottom line is the indication of NORMAL woman, not GONNNA SHOW OTHERS HOW GREAT I AM WOMEN.. This was all over on the Ace53 blog titled.. "Arnold Schwarzenegger 'Took Care' of Baby Mama.."
I find NOTHING wrong with the questioning of Miss Bijou.. BUT I find it very disturbing that women still feel we as men care ONE OUNCE about your brain or success or any of all that.. Those things are OK.. Those things can be a plus or a minus depending, but they DO NOT MAKE A WOMAN.. They certainly do not in any way make one have a desire for them and probably many times make a man have LESS desire. When women move up the ladder chances are the less she has the scent or actions of a woman.. Yea, they may have an OK to good doctored up look that would make them worth trying to break down for a one night JUST cause we need to pop them type thing, but they just flat do not have the WANNNNA .. well anyway, they just are not desirable the way other women are..
Hell, the successful woman has most things of a woman somewhat stripped away with all the fancy doing of all the nails, hands and feet.. all the fancy last for MANY hours scents or take away scents type products as well as who knows what all strange stuff they eat that takes away much of the natural processing of the body.. AND yes much of that would be taking a lot of the scent of the woman away, not to mention many of those women get way beyond acting out like a more down to earth woman would, I mean the NORMAL COME GET ME actions of a woman.. AND yes a NORMAL woman is attractive to a man even though thinking they are SUCCESSFUL women will NEVER EVER SEE THAT I guess ..
It seems so strange to me that women can not see why these men stray.. or why these men are attracted to or desire what I will call the WOMEN WITH LOOKS.. NO looks still has NOTHING to do with how woman want to see it.. In fact MOST times the women these men stray with would probably be considered LESS the look than their wives or the millions of SUCCESSFUL women out there, but they have the LOOKS.. Well the looks and they are enough of a woman we can pick up on the desire we would have for them.. We as men most times are drawn to the different actions, ways.. radiance's as well as scents that are part of the woman and often even a bit different depending on where they are on their cycle.. Those are the look men often look for .. AND yes at times it can be seen even in pictures.. even at times on the TV screen and for sure in person..
ANYWAY.. Bottom line is sure many of these men have what WOMEN see as the EVERYTHING woman, but chances are she may well have become NOT MUCH OF A WOMAN to her man.. AND please again.. I am not trying to point out anyone or anything, just a concept worth considering.. AND not all men cheat.. Some of us feel cheating is way beyond way way way wrong, so this in NO WAY condones what any of these men do.. NOT at all..
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When we are so misunderstood..
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May 18, 2011 1:27 am
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Oh we have to be with our generation to be understood..
Oh yes we have to be in our generation for each others good.
Sure our own generation lived the life we have and we share things the same..
Hell NO, kids, other ages and all the other generations talk or seem so lame.
Gotta have our own age group or everyone is misunderstood and that's a shame..
Oh yes our age group is where we will find common ground.
You bet our age group wants the same things and are fun to be around.
Sure we are of the same activity level and even want the same volume when we hear sound.
GOD don't we get excited when we find our generation, it makes our heart pound..
WOW our words.. our phrases, our colloquialisms are so much on track..
Hell we play the same on line games and lay looking at stars while on our back.
Shoot, we even have the same intensity of passion when we are in the sack.
Hell yes, get together with our generation so we are on the same page, no looking back.
What you say you do not understand what I say?
You do not get a hint if I keep it short or if I explain you can not read it all anyway?
What, you are my generation and I am yours.. you bet we understand each other today.
Hell yes we want to do the same things and I want you all to come out and play.
You bet I know my age, my generation, my way.
You bet, I got my birth certificate and I can read my birth year, what can I say?
Hell yes, I know my graduation date, the year of 66 about the end of May.
Don't tell me I don't know my generation and how they should be..
Hell yes, I cut them no slack as they should fit right in with me..
Don't try to tell me you don't understand .. we were taught comprehension you see.
Hell yes, I even taught it to those in education centers getting their GED..
Don't play coy with me and try to pretend I am misunderstood.
We are each others generation, now lets step up the plate and make all this work out good..
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You want the man to pay? Did he have a say?
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May 17, 2011 3:23 pm
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You want the man to pay?
Did he have a say?
Is it finally couples right to choose?
Is it still women only have rights and the man is to loose?
Excuse me, are we equal here?
There is NO need for special rights where a man has so much to loose..
What, you want equal pay?
Hell, I feel it is already that way.
Here take my job, let me have yours, now get out of my way..
What, you don't want me to have a say?
You are probably right .. I want equality starting today..
What, your special, it is YOUR body?
Yes, you are right, now if you don't want, don't give it away..
OH, but you want to share it with a person or a man?
That would make you a couple, we need to change the laws of the land..
Yes, it is a couples right to choose..
Yes, you are right, you carry the seed..
What, that makes you special?
Yes it use to before this time of equality.
What, that gives you a right to choose?
No, your choice to couple was your right to choose..
The mans choice to couple gave him a chance to loose..
Yes of course, maybe owe money for many years..
OH but .. what if two of you decide it is a choice to win?
Perhaps to share in a new life that could begin..
Yes, thank God in many places we have the Right of Choice..
Yes some places we have the right to lift our voice..
Yes at times we have equality and can have our say..
You got it, Equality does not make any of us special in any way..
Want to be special, that is not an equal, but a special class..
Special often needs some protection, not fitting quite in the equal class..
Yes we have the right to choose to be special or equal in a lot of cases.
Often if we discuss with others it will put smiles on all our faces..
If we exercise our right to choose..
Lets be mature enough to discuss so neither of us feel we are going to loose..
Please give a lot of thought to what I have had to say..
Lets decide if we want to be special or equal this very day.
Oh sure with our right one.
We can be equal as well as special in every way.
Yes, it is our right to choose..
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Those hands..
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May 16, 2011 10:04 pm
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Those hands worn and rough..
Those hands calloused and tough.
Those hands at times thick and swollen..
Those hands sometimes cracked and bleeding.
Those hands some nights holding a book reading..
When we close our eyes and think.. Yes it is those hands..
We know those hands worked long and tough..
Often so we had just enough.
It was so we had some food and clothes.
Yes and gas to travel the places where people go..
It was so we could do what people do..
A trip to the store, the library or even the zoo..
That is what those hands earned money for us to do..
We can still hear Momma raise her voice with the cry..
Clean those nails.. wash those hands again.. why oh why..
Why aren't your hands soft and pretty like some other guy..
Get a brush scrub out the guck..
Damn those hands look rough and like yuck..
AND you are gonna touch me and gonna wanna..
We would look and feel tears in our eyes..
We knew Momma loved Daddy and not a different guy.
We had no clue what all she was talking or what Dad should do..
We knew those hands could give a swat, but they would protect us too..
Yes, that is what we knew Daddies hands could do..
We knew those hands had been to a war..
We even liked the slightly bent finger that had been broken in a slamming door.
They were Daddies hands who could ever ask for more.
At times we looked at them and knew they had to be sore..
Finally Daddy had some promotion.
His hands did not have to have quite as much dirty working type action.
We hoped that gave Momma some satisfaction.
We would see Daddies fingers work computer keys from his brain as a reaction.
We could not believe those rough hands could have that much liquid motion.
We would look at those hands and feel great emotion.
We knew Daddy thought of Momma and us with love and devotion.
We saw those hands age a bit more as time went by..
We would see them at times a bit wrinkled and sometimes dry.
We remember times when we saw them folded and a tear in Daddies eye..
No matter what, he was our Daddy and one hell of a guy..
Yes, thinking of it even now still can make me cry..
Momma finally left... went with another guy one day.
One with smooth hands that look kind of .. well what can we say..
I guess she picked hands that were not wrinkled and dirty in any way.
We thought Momma might be a bit strange.
Maybe different from other women but we were not sure.
But we learned a working mans hands should make him insecure.
Daddy always said.. Get papers on the wall..
Don't use your hands much more than you have to for working at all..
A working mans hands don't hardly pay the bills anymore.
Plus working makes them dirty, cracked, rough and sore..
Many places you go working hands gets you thrown out the door.
When those hands are laid across the chest..
When those hands are seen on the body laying there in the final rest..
When those hands no longer move..
When those hands and body will be lowered in the grave..
Then we will feel more tears and think of what those hands gave..
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When our heart was hurting and we could hardly stand..
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May 16, 2011 5:56 am
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When our heart was hurting and no one was around..
When our pain would be so great it would almost knock us to the ground..
When we needed compassion and none was to be found..
When we would sit in the dark with tears and keep it quiet not even a sound..
When we would come on line hoping the mean ones were gone and not around.
We would cry out OH GOD why ME?
God I am hurting so bad can't you see?
Dear God, can't you take this bitter cup away?
God, I can't take the pain another day..
Please someone help it go away..
When we would fill out a profile, try to express our heart..
When we were hurting .. our life torn apart..
When we would post a picture.. some words.. just want company..
When we would say OH DEAR GOD let there be someone to say HELLO to me..
OH YEA, when we were not feeling we were a Heart Throb or very pretty..
When we were saying OH GOD I just want some one to want my heart and body.
I want to feel at least worth something to somebody..
When our hands would shake as we clicked the key to post..
When we were so afraid we almost would upchuck our food even some toast..
When we felt the pain, confusion and might turn white as a ghost..
When we just wanted a hello even from another country or the other coast..
Yea at times hurting so bad we wanted it to all end..
The times when we just had to have a hello from a person like some called on line friend..
When we knew our pain was so great..
Even though we knew many were full of hate..
Even when we understood some might not be for real..
OH GOD we just needed some seductive words to sooth the pain we feel.
YES, even some cyber silver tongue with a good spiel..
Help us through the night even if it is not for real..
So my words are a bit seductive..
So my picture is a bit suggestive.
So my actions to some are a bit negative.
IF it helps this hurting in my heart it is positive..
Frick others, why can't they live and let live?
Have they NEVER hurt or ever had anything to give?
Another day.. a bit more pain has gone away..
Another night and a bit less vulnerable today.
Another week a bit more processed..
Time to take down the suggestive pictures I guess..
God back in some of those days I was such a mess.
Still it does not make better the HATE some showed me I must confess.
Well, to hell with them, I guess they never felt the pain.. just shallow I guess.
Another year.. all is better..
Yep, healthy enough to talk about the weather..
Don't need the cyber or suggestive words..
BUT sure as hell don't need most of the on line judgmental turds..
To hell with them to hell with them I am FREE..
I am free to finally be a HEALED ME..
Now Dear God don't let me forget my roots..
Don't let me forget how when I came on line I was full of hurt..
OH there is another Newbie...
Yes another hurting one we can all see..
OMG they have such suggestive words..
OH DID you see that picture and them all hanging out..
Lets just say hello and help them through their pain.
OH GOD no the bashers will come down on them like so much rain..
Please God don't let them destroy another hurting soul again..
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Newbie Lady in a Real Life Princess dress who posted here... Yep and I guess got blasted?
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May 15, 2011 8:04 pm
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Dang what all goes on? OK OK I know she probably had on a wanna be Princess Dress as we commoners can not afford the real thing, but I have seen several posting in the wanna be Princess Dresses since that ROYAL wedding a few weeks ago.. AND you better bet what the new married Royal Lady wore was shown EVERYWHERE. Yes I am talking of the damn attractive NOTHING of a dress the new Princess Lady wore 8 years ago to CATCH her man.. or at least get his attention after she told her friends HE WILL BE MINE...
OH OH OH and back to my other blog.. YEP she knew that she knew that she KNEW he was one she wanted to MARRY.. and you bet she UNDERSTOOD his FIRST hello he needed to be thinking DANG I wannna MARRY HER... Life is just tooo simple and even the ROYALS know it.. or have simple people who tell them how life is.. OK I also want to say this is NOT a blast or a blog intended to upset anyone.. Just my words and observations or askings.. Please do not any of you take it personal.. BUT
Yep, the BUT.. Moving on to this NEWBIE lady.. I of course did not see the whole thing or all the posts.. I have NO clue for sure what all went on... Shooot she could be a REMAKE of an OLD name or stuff... IF so shame on her and the women would know or pick up on that a whole lot better than I would as I often have NO clue on women and stuff... Yep. I got me one of them man pea pickin not knowing much but gotta ask brains...
OK here is my asking... Why is it alright for an aspiring Princess Lady or a wanting to GET HER MAN actress or any of these whopppy do da uppper crust ones .. Why is it all right for them to wear SHOW it all type stuff and it is NOT for the commoner? Each wanna get their man or if NOT get one, at least have some do a double take and say... DAMN..
OH, I know some will try to say OH commoners have HUGE chests or all kinds of talk about the FOOD intake of .. well you know... Get over yourselves.. Sure I can see the SIZE of the.. well the .. well .. anyway.. and as most understand I am a A or B, maybe a C man... but that still does NOT mean those plus other sizes need to restrict their showing..
SHOOT I know some places it is not legal to have them hanging out all bare so at least a lot of areas now have women putting on a LITTLE sliver of tape to cover.. well the .. well OK, some now have them making an X with the tape so it at LEAST covers the nipple.. Yea, I am sure the circled nipple flowered ring is outlawed for the total cover up wear most places now as it only covered the Areola and often enhanced the nipple.. But none the less IF we walk the streets.. do the beaches.. hell go most anywhere we see a LOT more than any crazy Princess Dress..
OK back to my wonderings.. Why oh why are women so wanna restrict other women? Hell this is a DATING MEETING site.. shoot for that matter MOST anywhere SINGLES go is a MEETING CHANCE.. We are SINGLE for GODS SAKE.. Sure maybe a lot of us don't wanna be caught, but we are SINGLE.. Singles will try to catch singles and hell in some cases a few married also... Hell yes I understand them wearing their PRINCESS DRESS and knowing that they want us as men to say DAMN let me look at that color again as I am NOT sure I got the full depth of the color.. sheesh..
OH OH OH and for the ladies that don't know or remember... FOR all of YOU.. MANY OF US .. yep many of us men had a nipple stuck in our mouths about FIRST thing when we were born and .. YEP you got it.. we have had nipples thrust in our face every since that first day.. Nipples are NOT new to us.. AND yea.. I am sure most times they will get our attention till the day we die... BUT .. well I better shut up.. BUT I still see NOTHING wrong with a woman.. well YEP I will shut up..
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Before the first Hello many men know if they would marry the woman or not..
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May 14, 2011 5:48 pm
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Before the first Hello many men know if they would marry the woman or not.. The rest is chancing getting in her pants...
Men know without a doubt we grow on women just by hanging around... OH yea, at times it is better if we play the woman words and actions game to SUCK them in.. and trust me most of us can.. BUT the best the woman EVER is to us is the first hello or look.. Nope, does not matter too much if she is gussied up or not.. We either KNOW that we KNOW that we will marry them or not.. Now if we want to gold dig or trophy them or something, sure we might accept no matter what the FIRST impression is, but we KNOW..
Sure OUR ONE.. the one that we can turn to our kids .. our buds or others .. the ONE we can say I would be happy to marry that girl.. Sure that one grows on us and gets better and better as we give her our heart.. BUT the rest are just a back up so to speak for the times when a lay would be OK.. AND you better bet many men will play the friends game with women for years at times ... I think it is wrong, but they do it.. AND yea, we will hear some of the men say OH YOU CAN NOT CATEGORIZE ALL MEN..
NO, I can not and I can NOT categorize all of our friendships either as there can be a FEW we see as NON WOMAN who we are not friending for the lay... BUT it is seldom and few between.. We do not see ages of women as though they are OUR MOTHERS age or OUR DAUGHTERS age.. We see them as WOMEN... NOW we see our MOTHERS or DAUGHTERS as our Mothers and Daughters, but the rest of women are WOMEN.. That is why there is NO age to men.. but instead there is I would marry her or I would NOT marry her.. Just that simple... AND again it is border line of before the first hello.... AND yea some men are different I suppose, but most are probably NOT, but many will LIE out of it or not face it and sure will NOT want women to know the mans heart or ways..
All this chit chat.. All this HE is interested in ME.. or He is interested in what I like .. or HE is interested in what I do.. OR OR OR.. all this make a WOMAN feel good means NOTHING... Either he is interested because YOU are the ONE or he is interested to make you feel good and that in the end SHOULD and PROBABLY will lead to getting in your pants... Sorry, but that is how simple men are..
OUR ONE.. you bet we are interested in all that she is .. all that she does.. all that is HER.. YOU bet we support and care... You bet we will be ALL to her.. You bet it is real.. BUT it does NOT change one lick of how we feel of her as she is OUR ONE.. NOT one lick unless in some cases it irritates us a bit, but we tolerate and LOVE her so much we are happy stuff makes her happy.. BUT it matters NOT A LICK.. NOT A LICK..
Now with all that said.. IF if if we get past the first HELLO and to the getting to know.. IF we accept in those first 15 seconds she is the POTENTIAL one.. if we do.. THEN the getting to know her could make it where it is toooooo tooooo toooo much maintenance and finish it off anyway.. But never think if YOU are NOT the one that you will grow on us.. It does NOT happen.. that is a woman thing, not a man.. Sure we may well get into our settle mode and do the pro con thing and say.. DAMN I better take her, but it still does NOT make you the one...
You know.. I come into contact with maybe 2 or 3 women a year.. maybe a few more, but a few who understand this.. They will ask almost instantly .. Would YOU marry me.. AND then we have cut to the chase.. cut away all the bull, got it to a point we can talk.. to a point we can ask do we need to learn more of each other.. AND yes most times all that can be answered in the first 15 seconds.. NO the talk takes hours often, but the KNOW that we KNOW is there instantly..
I have talked to a LOT of women and many will say they know also .. not with the certainty of a man, but they know if the man will be what they want to consider the ONE... IF they will look in themselves and be truthful they can say.. AND I want them to say and know what they know or I do not want to chance the manipulation game on them.. Women are just tooo precious for us as men to play the game.. Just to precious.. let them go on an find Mister Right .. Life is just tooo simple... to simple...
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SHUT off the damn TV.. shut it off shut it off shut it off.. PS, all you ever need to learn is here
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May 14, 2011 6:56 am
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SHUT off the damn TV.. shut it off shut it off shut it off.. PS, all you ever need to learn is here at SFF..
Watch the people.. this is where we will learn what people really are.. Pathetic bunch isn't it? LOL OK, not all, but most of us.. well, OK OK I will say I am so I can be POLITICALLY correct.. sheesh.. Does that make some of you feel better that I only name ME?
I have said before and say again and again.. Some say in about 4 minutes of TV the brain goes dead or into some kind of state or who knows... THE TV does weird stuff to people anyway.. That should tell all of us DANGER.. the TV is danger.. Yet I bet some have the TV on .. what 4 .. 5 .. maybe 6 or more hours a day? sheesh.. My God talk about second hand smoke or other stuff being bad.. what about BRAIN ROT?
I often wonder if any are doing much for quiet hours a day anymore.. some have to have noise most times and the TV seems to be one of them.. Do we ever get that 4 .. 5 .. or 6 hours a day of quiet anymore where we can just process and clear?
Anyway.. I guess per usual I was brought up in a blog because I made judgments about a certain TV doctor because I processed that the ones posting against the man were of a KNOWN SFF political persuasion.. I was told I flunked LOGIC school or something.. YEP.. that is a good JUDGMENT.. it sure it.. Hell I have tried to indicate I ONLY say I ever did third grade.. We also know I have NOT done TV.. Yep, we have to assume I have NO logic.. yep good assumption..
Poor Rugged.. sheltered from TV.. Tooo pooor to afford school.. SHOOT.. we were so poor Daddy could NOT afford a job.. AND I AM TELLING YOU THAT IS POOR.. bad poor.. poor Rugged.. pooor Rugged..
Bottom line is.. I am getting MY education RIGHT here on SFF.. I am learning all I ever need to know right here.. I am learning from watching the people RIGHT here and they are FUN to watch.. AND NO I WILL NOT TURN ON THE TV.. I suggest YOU shut yours off also.. No, that is NOT logical, that is just my seeing some of what I feel are the BRAIN DEAD of .. OPPPS that was NOT nice.. sorrrrrow.. I will not say that.. I will just say SHUT OFF YOUR TV and get some quiet time.. Mother Earth wants to talk to all of us if we will listen..
TOO much TV 
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Bought my first ever Boston Baked Cream Cake thing today..
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May 13, 2011 8:05 am
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Bought my first ever Boston Baked Cream Cake today..
I ain't been missing nothing. what can I say..
Boston Baked this and Boston Baked that..
Boston Baked wings.. never tied any of them..
Boston Baked Beans, tried a few, No beans that I could see..
Boston Baked Tea .. Not sure what all that was all about..
Boston Baked Tea Party in this day and age has many mad as can be.
OH you know... if you meet a lady here and there..
They might say.. OH you gotta try this or we can even share..
They might want a man to try a Boston Baked something or think you are square..
So I decided to try one of them there Boston Baked Cake things cause it was on sale.
Even though it ain't made me sick or turned me a bit pale...
Can't say I have ever missed much other than feeling full as a beached whale..
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