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Yea, I'll listen.. well maybe!
 
AND NO people, I am not seeing anyone or writing most things about me.. they are writings I am doing.. they are my enjoyment of words.. Sure they can be about any of us if we are together or such, but MOST stuff is NOT about me.. NOT about YOU, not about anyone.. JUST WRITING..

Thank you for stopping in, sit if you would like as I have a fire going and am enjoying the beautiful rain. Yea, I work out in it full time and for the most part enjoy it as it give me a lot of time to think. I know, my brain is soggy, so I am guessing it maybe best I say nothing, but for sure know I will love my Miss Right like there is no tomorrow when the space ship brings her. If you are on that craft, go ahead and land as for sure we will make us a pot of coffee and I will listen until I get safe enough to talk. Hugs to you for sure. PS, what is your name?
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It appears women will tell us MEN what we think, but get upset if we speculate on what they think. May 20, 2011 2:49 pm
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It seems way strange.. AND you bet when I am married I am somewhat happy to ask MY WOMAN what I think.. Hell, I know they probably know more about me than I do.. I do not find most of that at all intimidating as I, or maybe men have very few wants in life.. Shoot maybe a very few a WHOLE year where often women have MANY a day.. And YEA all of you run with that statement as I am sure that can't be understood .. I am talking the WANTS here, NOT the needs.. Keep those separate as you ponder this..

BUT I hear time and time and time again .. I am not allowed to speak for or hardly even say what I feel a woman thinks or feels because I am a man.. BUT I see ALL the time if I even remotely state what I feel a MAN or MEN or I think.. I am told I can not .. do not .. should not.. or any of the other NOTS.. I can not be that way..

I am TOLD what MEN think or what I think or what WOMEN have decided is the MAN way of thinking.. then of course the NEXT big gottttta use the wannna WAY hurt slam word or phase of.. JUST a neanderthal.. LOL
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Men want a WOMAN, not a brain, not a success.. May 20, 2011 3:29 am
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Please do not take this ALL inclusive.. sure it is NOT all men.. but seems like most, well maybe.. AND do NOT take it as hammering down ANY woman as I want YOU ALL to do and be whatever you want as I am fairly sure NONE of us care.. Feel the success or whatever you want.. It is way OK.. The ONLY one many of us care one whit about is OUR WOMAN.. So do not try to take this personal as it is NOT..

The lovely Miss bijou624 stated "Some of these men have such great careers and beautiful accomplished wives, yet they were willing to risk everything to have s*x with, ".. then she used two words, but indicated the men would enjoy LESS accomplished women.. The two words she stated was.. "domestic help and a cleaning lady".. I would say we can use any set of words, but bottom line is the indication of NORMAL woman, not GONNNA SHOW OTHERS HOW GREAT I AM WOMEN.. This was all over on the Ace53 blog titled.. "Arnold Schwarzenegger 'Took Care' of Baby Mama.."

I find NOTHING wrong with the questioning of Miss Bijou.. BUT I find it very disturbing that women still feel we as men care ONE OUNCE about your brain or success or any of all that.. Those things are OK.. Those things can be a plus or a minus depending, but they DO NOT MAKE A WOMAN.. They certainly do not in any way make one have a desire for them and probably many times make a man have LESS desire. When women move up the ladder chances are the less she has the scent or actions of a woman.. Yea, they may have an OK to good doctored up look that would make them worth trying to break down for a one night JUST cause we need to pop them type thing, but they just flat do not have the WANNNNA .. well anyway, they just are not desirable the way other women are..

Hell, the successful woman has most things of a woman somewhat stripped away with all the fancy doing of all the nails, hands and feet.. all the fancy last for MANY hours scents or take away scents type products as well as who knows what all strange stuff they eat that takes away much of the natural processing of the body.. AND yes much of that would be taking a lot of the scent of the woman away, not to mention many of those women get way beyond acting out like a more down to earth woman would, I mean the NORMAL COME GET ME actions of a woman.. AND yes a NORMAL woman is attractive to a man even though thinking they are SUCCESSFUL women will NEVER EVER SEE THAT I guess ..

It seems so strange to me that women can not see why these men stray.. or why these men are attracted to or desire what I will call the WOMEN WITH LOOKS.. NO looks still has NOTHING to do with how woman want to see it.. In fact MOST times the women these men stray with would probably be considered LESS the look than their wives or the millions of SUCCESSFUL women out there, but they have the LOOKS.. Well the looks and they are enough of a woman we can pick up on the desire we would have for them.. We as men most times are drawn to the different actions, ways.. radiance's as well as scents that are part of the woman and often even a bit different depending on where they are on their cycle.. Those are the look men often look for .. AND yes at times it can be seen even in pictures.. even at times on the TV screen and for sure in person..

ANYWAY.. Bottom line is sure many of these men have what WOMEN see as the EVERYTHING woman, but chances are she may well have become NOT MUCH OF A WOMAN to her man.. AND please again.. I am not trying to point out anyone or anything, just a concept worth considering.. AND not all men cheat.. Some of us feel cheating is way beyond way way way wrong, so this in NO WAY condones what any of these men do.. NOT at all..
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