dinty3 79 M 116  questions	Body piercing - 1/17/2005 Just like jmcd asked about body art, I would like to know what you think about body piercing. What ok and what is not ok? How many ear piercings is enough? Would you get a piercing? 6 response(s), 4 votes
jmcd 64 F 18  questions	Body art - 1/16/2005 Do you have your last girlfriends name tattooed across your chest? or a small delicate rose in a tucked away location? <br> Totally turned off by the idea? turned on? 3 response(s), 0 votes
sensual47 68 M 4  questions	Relinquishing SSF membership - 1/15/2005 Well people, the questions of the past few days sealed my previous decision to end my SFF relationship. As Destiny stated earlier there are other venues to look into. The time has come to get out of the rut and seek new adventures with my new fiancee. I wish you all well and happiness in your endeavors. Be well 7 response(s), 5 votes
Angel84403 73 F 4  questions	Create A Safe Environment - 1/15/2005 One of the most important elements in every relationship is creating an environment where two people can grow. If you look at your past relationships, you will probably find that the environment wasn’t safe. By safe I mean you couldn’t express yourself without worry or concern that what you say would be rejected or dismissed. A safe environment is what makes two people want to ... 1 response(s), 2 votes
Angel84403 73 F 4  questions	Breaking The Cycle - 1/15/2005 Whenever we get stuck in patterns that we don’t like or that are unhealthy for us, we have to learn how to break the cycle. As the old saying goes, “If you don’t learn from history you will repeat it.” Therefore, one of the best ways to create change in your life is to sit down and do some personal self analysis. Questions you may want to ask yourself include: Do ... 3 response(s), 1 vote
Angel84403 73 F 4  questions	HOW DO YOU FORGIVENESS - 1/14/2005 “Stop. Listen to yourself. You don’t want to hold on to that hurt. It’s only hurting you more. Every time you relive it, you are playing the part of the victim.” <br> Over the years I have read a lot about forgiveness. I have listened to a variety of speakers, and tried a variety of prayers. All of that has been helpful in its own way. Yet what has ... 2 response(s), 3 votes
jmcd 64 F 18  questions	Mid-life crisis? - 1/14/2005 Has it hit? What was the motivation? the determining factor? Was it a major turning point, or just a ripple along your journey? 2 response(s), 1 vote
Angel84403 73 F 4  questions	Should I Marry Again? - 1/14/2005 Well over 50% of all second marriages end in divorce, many people who have experienced multiple marriages are beginning to wonder whether they can find the intimacy that they desire. Many become depressed and lose hope. They ask questions like this, “Will I ever find someone to be happy with? Or “Is there something wrong with me?” I believe the following ideas will help ... 1 response(s), 3 votes
jmcd 64 F 18  questions	Girls and Boys` - 1/14/2005 If you could be any automobile what would you be, and why? Would you be the sweet lines of a maroon Jaguar, or a rough and tumble yellow Jeep 4x4 mud caked on the underbelly? 3 response(s), 2 votes
Kassr 228  questions	Do stormy nights increase your passion? - 1/12/2005 Sitting here tonight watching the snow fall outside my thoughts drifted to when my wife and I were together and how we would be enjoying a night like this. I was thinking of how on stormy nights we always seemed to have a much stronger passion when we made love. It is funny how you think of little things like this, now being single, that you never noticed before. <br> Has ... 5 response(s), 5 votes
Kassr 228  questions	Any Positive Experiences Out There? - 1/12/2005 I have been here on SFF for a little while and after reading & responding to quite a few articles I have noticed a few common factors that are repeatedly displayed. It would seem that the majority of the ladies who frequent this particular forum are very cynical, mistrusting, suspicious and down right bitter. <br> Simple invitations are referred to as a “line”, ... 9 response(s), 19 votes
Kassr 228  questions	Who Is In The Drivers Seat? - 1/12/2005 When you are considering going on the first couple of dates with someone which method of transportation do you prefer? <br> Ladies: Having your date pick you up and riding in his vehicle? First meeting at your house and then taking your vehicle? Meeting your date at the chosen location of the date? Entering together or would you already be there waiting? What are the reasons for ... 2 response(s), 1 vote
Kassr 228  questions	To Kiss or Not to Kiss. That is the question. - 1/12/2005 You have concluded the first date and really enjoyed the time spent with your new partner. Both of you have communicated on how good of a time you have had together and would like to get together again soon. The only awkward moment of the date is now at hand; it is time to say good-bye. Now what do you do? <br> Is it appropriate to kiss on the conclusion of the first date? Would ... 3 response(s), 1 vote
Kassr 228  questions	How Long Has It Really Been? - 1/11/2005 When was the last time you actually met someone new and after that meeting the results were accepting or initiating an invitation to go on a first date with that person? <br> I am speaking of going on the date with the idea that it would be acceptable or even nice if this person would become more than just a casual friend. <br> It has been well over 3 months since I ... 3 response(s), 4 votes
Kassr 228  questions	Ladies can a man be too much of a gentleman? - 1/11/2005 Have you ever been with a man who you really liked and have been hoping & waiting for him to make the first move to expand the relationship from casual friendship to one of intimacy and yet he remains the perfect gentleman at all times? Is there some point where you just say the hell with it, stuff this being a proper lady, and just take matters into your own hands? {No pun intended.} Or do ... 1 response(s), 4 votes
olsinr 87 M 2  questions	Do you ever get email from someone seeking a same sex parrtner - 1/10/2005 and if yes what do you do about it. <br> Seems many women and many men are looking for a same sex partner. <br> I am no longer surprised when men write me who are interested in a same sex partner. In checking their profiles I find some are very intelligent and thoughtful people. <br> Would you or would you not respond to such email and why? ... 3 response(s), 6 votes
Ontarioman 87 M 1  question	Man to man friendship can be great but hard to find in this - 1/10/2005 rush for gender mix. Would be nice to sit down and chat with a gent who also has an iterest in photography, the out of doors, dining out or sharing a meal or two or other matters. <br> Is such a contact possible on this site or should I look elsewhere? All opinions welcomed, especially from eastern Ontario. 1 response(s), 4 votes
after8 59 F 2  questions	WHY do men have to be like this? - 1/9/2005 Internet love, can it work? <br> On several occasions I have become kind of close to someone, by either chatting or writing. The men mostly said to me they were very interested in me and wanted to get acquainted, even meet. <br> But at the same time, I had to discover, they were not on one site, but several other sites hunting. <br> How can I believe them ... 6 response(s), 13 votes
Adventrimax 73 M 1  question	My Question Of The Week,,,, - 1/9/2005 How does one respond to the comment, "I wish we had met 20 years ago?" 4 response(s), 8 votes
beeaired 84 M 1  question	People in chats who,,have sorta died and came back??..Like their sickness is the worst!! - 1/7/2005 After all these years in chats (6+), why do chatters come into the room will all the aches and pains as if they are the only one that this happens to?Feel is sorta like a gee look at me!! Guess beats talking about the locaL WEATHER.There are so many topics to choose from..like..hahaha..marriage, divorce, ,..life in general. <br> Had my say. 1 response(s), 2 votes
valentinegirl4u 44 F 3  questions	How can I believe him? - 1/7/2005 I've found a man on the net, we talked through emails and chatted sometimes for a month. He wants me to be his wife and asked me married with him. He sounds good in the first time. He tried to tell me everyday, love me and miss me. But now he doesn't say anymore. No emails or no ecards, just chat with me when he has time for me. He've told me that he wants to visit and meet me. I am not ... 6 response(s), 2 votes
valentinegirl4u 44 F 3  questions	How can I believe him? - 1/7/2005 I've found a man on the net, we talked through emails and chatted sometimes for a month. He wants me to be his wife and asked me married with him. He sounds good in the first time. He tried to tell me everyday, love me and miss me. But now he doesn't say anymore. No emails or no ecards, just chat with me when he has time for me. He've told me that he wants to visit and meet me. I am not ... 2 response(s), 3 votes
jmcd 64 F 18  questions	How do you say I love you? - 1/6/2005 I've read where the male of the species says "I love you" through physical intimacy, and the female expresses "I love you" through emotional intimacy. <br> What are your views, and how do you express yourself? 7 response(s), 6 votes
bobobear3 65 M 1  question	contact address - 1/6/2005 can anyone tell me why. when people contact you they never leave you a contact address or email address or mobile number i myself have been contacted a few times but they never say how to contact them shame really some nice looking ladies, some i have even fancied, from bobobear3 4 response(s), 10 votes
jimmyblueyes 81 M 2  questions	What ever became of "Still57and fine"? - 1/4/2005 Has anyone on SFF been in contact with "still57 and fine" after his "farewell" posting?.... How is he getting on????......Maybe one of the following "special friends" might have the answer?....how about it: Donald, Nemo, Margiesue, Texas, Gldngirl, Brownpaperbag, Delldellaney???? 0 response(s), 1 vote
brownpaperbag2 62 F 18  questions	maturity? - 1/3/2005 This is actually in response to "back biting, nasty replies and no replies" The responses amaze me..I have to say that as far as i am concerned maturity does not have an age, I have seen the behaviour of people in their 60's that cannot measure up to my daughters maturity and she is 11 yrs old!!! 1 response(s), 1 vote
rickyspin 69 M 1  question	HAVE YOU READ THE CONTEST IN RELATION HUMOR? - 1/1/2005 Please read about the ON LINE CHAT ROOM ROMANCE WRITIG CONTEST IN REALIONSHIP HUMOR. IT WILL BE ENJOYABLE, ALL ARE ELIGABLE, JUDGES, PROTORS AND CHEER SQUADS ARE NEEDED. 1 response(s), 1 vote
Shartaun03 81 F 34  questions	Christmas giving - 12/30/2004 I was just wondering if anyone else had experienced this.... when someone gives you a present and you had not given them anything. What is the correct way to handle this. Should one go out and buy them something in return or just accept graciously.. I have always felt that giving is not what you expect others to give to you but rather something that comes from the heart. But I hear this ... 3 response(s), 1 vote
brownpaperbag2 62 F 18  questions	butt out - 12/30/2004 Mind your own business Margiesue this does not concern you, obviously you havent been on the receiving end of georgiegirls spite. I did not start this, nor do i wish to continue it. All I can say is if you can dish it out then learn to take it. You dont seem to be too tolerant of people so i suggest you practise what you preach..I dont like ppl obtaining my email address and using it to ... 7 response(s), 2 votes
brownpaperbag2 62 F 18  questions	a joke? - 12/30/2004 "I ask for a photo because simply I am tired of the married men playing games. My time is worth something" BARBIESBIGSISTR .......mmm correct me if I am wrong but I for one have never been able to tell if a man is married purely by looking at his photo.. 3 response(s), 1 vote