mwm_with_kids 73 M 4  questions	Birth Control as a moral issue ... - 11/9/2004 USA Today has an interesting article "Druggists refuse to give out pill" which describes militant pharmacists taking womens perscriptions and refusing to give them the pills or the perscription back so they can go elsewhere. <br> So much for being a professional. Especially the part about refusing to give the perscription back so the woman can go elsewhere. Talk about being ... 8 response(s), 5 votes
Still57AndFine 71 M 54  questions	Are men less emotional than women? - 11/9/2004 I just popped in for a moment, maybe you could see this as a landing of a martian. I have to say every time I hear the words women are from Venus and men are from Mars, I don't know if I should cringe or chuckle. I heard the beckoning of a lady who will always have a special place in my heart. Her call came through my private mail. During these days when I have many personal things I must ... 4 response(s), 9 votes
callieX 88 F 1  question	Do you like men in Prison writing you? - 11/8/2004 I have had a couple in prison write me and im Not happy about it...why are they allowed in here? 2 response(s), 9 votes
ddonaldd 73 M 39  questions	I missed the party - 11/6/2004 I heard some loud noise to the north but I thought it was only thunder. My Lab agreed. However, I now notice that TxArtist has flipped a number. Happy Birthday! Can we sing in chorus on IM or just have to send our cards individually? 14 response(s), 13 votes
nemo51 72 F 63  questions	Does anyone know you're here? - 11/4/2004 We all come to this site for different reasons. To chat, make new friends or in the hopes of connecting with someone and starting a long term relationship. Because there are still many negative opinions about sites like this, chat rooms, on-line dating etc. Do any of your friends or family members know you're here? If you've told anyone, what was the reaction? If you haven't, why? If you ... 3 response(s), 8 votes
RedheadedAngel4u 63 F 1  question	What is it we are Really Seeking???? - 11/3/2004 OK, First off I admit openly and honestly...I do not have a clue what it is that men are looking for! At one time I thought I did. However I find now that I was mistaken. I was under the impression that men wanted honesty, respect, a loving woman that is a lady in public and sensuous in the bed. She would have a smile to share and be supportive to his needs. Caring, giving, compassionate, ... 6 response(s), 20 votes
baberuth26 66 F 1  question	Why wait, and make sure you have found your best friend and soul mate? - 11/2/2004 Do you think you can have a good relationship if you didn't start out with your soul mate? I was anxious to get married and chose a mate because I lusted after romance. I thought I was in love. Soon after the initial excitement wore away, we had problem after problem. Always fighting, never agreeing on anything. We had different goals in life and also in our religious faith. He was ... 1 response(s), 14 votes
ddonaldd 73 M 39  questions	Looking for Mom and Dad - 11/1/2004 At a recent family reunion, some of the kinfolk hadn't seen my -in-law before and one of them remarked that he had this glint in his eye like me. It's sort of a non-wink wink. She further went on to propose that many people seek something of their mother and father in their proposed spouse. I know I have felt a certain endearment for women who had my mother's nose sort of like Sophia ... 2 response(s), 5 votes
ddonaldd 73 M 39  questions	Spam threats - 10/31/2004 In the last week I've received two semi-veiled threats, the last one reading: Subject: Where is my money, Dude. Only read You must return my payment back, or ... <br> The return address is in the UK but that usually doesn't mean anything with spammers. I also have discovered that these people can put a return address that is someone else's in order to cause that person the ... 2 response(s), 4 votes
Still57AndFine 71 M 54  questions	How do I say farewell? - 10/30/2004 It wasn't that long ago I found SFF. I came here after leaving another site. Once here I discovered this site had a magazine section. A place where members could asks questions, submit articles, poems and best of all support each other. I can say not every day I have been here has been the greatest day of my life. Sometimes after being here, I..well I didn't feel that great. One of the ... 10 response(s), 16 votes
Shartaun03 81 F 34  questions	What are the attributes of a long and lasting relationship - 10/30/2004 I am just wondering what one would call the attributes of a lasting relationship. I am not talking about friendships and relationships on the net either. Although I think it can start on the net but you have to meet and then go from there. It seems to me that there are many variances on this subject and would like to hear from all of you out there what your ideas are on this subject. 10 response(s), 5 votes
Still57AndFine 71 M 54  questions	Should we believe in him? - 10/29/2004 Lately there has been some mention of George Carlin. He is rather entertaining. This question is simple, if we should do a search for this man with an intent of reading his words how many of his words should we believe in? International surveys may be be needed unless you would like to just fly at it. (I hope I didn't use any words requiring a $3.95 dictionary) 2 response(s), 5 votes
Still57AndFine 71 M 54  questions	An old romantic train ride. - 10/29/2004 Do you think it would romantic have a date on a old romatic trian ride? We have one here that travels up the Coast from to Vancouver to points north and returns in a few hours. The scenery is magnificent and the engine, the cars are all restored. They call it the Royal Hudson. 5 response(s), 13 votes
Still57AndFine 71 M 54  questions	Room mates? - 10/29/2004 What would you do if you met a man/woman that lived in a house with a room-mate of the opposite sex? The room-mate is not related to the person you are interested in dating and is not connected by marriage . Do you think you could trust there was no hanky panky going on when you were not around? 2 response(s), 5 votes
Still57AndFine 71 M 54  questions	Could IQ differences be a problem? - 10/29/2004 In a recent conversation with a friend the topic of causes of divorces came about. How do you think you would do in a relationship with a person that had a considerably higher or lower IQ than yours? Should similar IQ's be a major consideration when searching for a mate? Some qualification for this question may be needed. Let's assume this person with a higher/lower IQ was not abusive to ... 5 response(s), 2 votes
Still57AndFine 71 M 54  questions	Can we blame pheromones? - 10/29/2004 Studies have proven that pheronomes are responsible for attraction to a mate. Pheronomes are released from the body as we prespire. When the pheronomes reach the scent perceptors in the nose of the victim a message is transmitted to the brain. The brain then sends instructions for hormones to be produced and released. These hormones effect us in ways we may have little or no control of. We ... 3 response(s), 6 votes
Still57AndFine 71 M 54  questions	Any suggestion how to do this? - 10/28/2004 She said "My dear, I think you and I are a little on the chub." I screamed and said "What's that you say? Iam not a chub! I beg your pardon madam, as you can clearly see I just posses a little extra padding. You might be the one to have the chub but surely you can see this description is not truly fitting of me." I pulled my pants up, tucked in my shirt and snapped my suspenders. Which ... 7 response(s), 4 votes
Still57AndFine 71 M 54  questions	I think I found an answer! - 10/28/2004 It seems as we search one of the problems we have is we can see someone we find attractive but we are not recognized. The person we can find attraction can have an eye for someone else. This I see could be like a long chain with everyone looking one way. Could somebody find the person at the front of this chain and take away that person's photo, better yet trade it for an old one. The next ... 6 response(s), 2 votes
womaninthemoon 73 F 2  questions	Players... - 10/28/2004 Can someone truly define "player" for me? Does dating several people during the same course of time make you a player? Can you leave your profile up and flirt with others while dating another and not be a "player"?...Just a little clarification please. 2 response(s), 4 votes
Still57AndFine 71 M 54  questions	Why do women use old photos? - 10/27/2004 I've seen several profiles on here by women that have old photos in their ads. Why do these women us old profiles? What wrong with recent photos? Why the deception? Can a few of you women explain this to us men? 11 response(s), 8 votes
Still57AndFine 71 M 54  questions	How succesful do you think you'll be here? - 10/27/2004 Do you think you'll be successful with your search on this site? 3 response(s), 3 votes
Still57AndFine 71 M 54  questions	The Bus Ride! - 10/26/2004 We may be spending too much time in our vehicles going to work and other places. Using public transportation could be a great way to meet people. We could use non-verbal forms to attract but in this case it won't work. We are limited to verbal communications. We can learn a lot about people as we act or re-act to what people do. If a bus were to leave one end of the country going the other ... 4 response(s), 3 votes
sensual47 68 M 4  questions	where's my profile gender? - 10/26/2004 I lost the gender from my profile and after repeated messages to SFF, have not received any reply. Has anyone else had this happen to them? ( Be ignored by SFF on a matter?? And my pic is gone from the article I wrote, was there before I upgraded. Now poof gonzo. 3 response(s), 2 votes
RoseofMI44 74 F 15  questions	"What Do You Think" - 10/26/2004 I bid you all farewell. I have enjoyed my time spent here. Some of my closest friends I met here. I also made a few angry it seems. Considering they are angry at the world, I have no regrets. For those sincere people who have their hearts in the right place, I wish you well. For those who contacted me with personal thanks for my brief words of wisdom, it is I who thank you. <br> ... 6 response(s), 7 votes
Still57AndFine 71 M 54  questions	What dominant brain side should I be looking for? - 10/25/2004 Some people are right brain dominant and other people left brain dominant, One side is creative dominant and the other side logic dominant. At the moment I don't remember which side is which. There are people that are left brain and right brain equals, I am one of these people. Apparently my creative, logical skills and abilities are equal. (This is not always a blessing) Should I be ... 2 response(s), 4 votes
Still57AndFine 71 M 54  questions	Can we use e-mails to really tell who or what a person is? - 10/25/2004 I had an interesting experience a few days ago. My sister lives close to me and we can talk every day on the phone if we want to. During a telephone conversation she told me about a web site she found. My sister asked me for my mail address and we switched to mailing back and forth a bit. How different she was in mail than in person or to talk to over the phone. I felt like I was talking to ... 10 response(s), 7 votes
RoseofMI44 74 F 15  questions	Can An International Relationship Survive - 10/25/2004 Over time, we have begun to see more people matching up from different parts of the world. Has society, , begun to be kinder to those whose choose a different kind of relationship? 12 response(s), 8 votes
nemo51 72 F 63  questions	Is time running out? - 10/24/2004 This past week my best friend had a mild stroke.It appears to have only affected her speech and the outlook for a full recovery is very good. We are the same age. We both admit that this has been a wake up call so to speak.It's time to take better care of ourselves, i.e. eat better, avoid stress, enjoy life more. What's harder for me to admit is how much this has scared me.I wonder will I ... 8 response(s), 9 votes
Still57AndFine 71 M 54  questions	Why the negative votes again? - 10/22/2004 Recently I posted a honest question about "Victims of the kiss and run game." This question again has some negative votes gainst it. Why? What was the problem with asking this question? What was the problem in trying to learn if other people have had problems with people that would not make a committment? What was wrong with trying to learn how people felt when this happened? If you voted ... 3 response(s), 10 votes
ddonaldd 73 M 39  questions	Couch Potato College - 10/22/2004 Since people have indicated a problem with my prefaces, I will start with the questions and you can ignore the rest. Do you think it would be fun to learn Spanish, French etc by DVD with a mate? Do you think it might lessen possible disagreements if s/he could get the dialogue while s/he (the other one, the opposite sex - presumably) explains the problems of the day? (I thought this was ... 5 response(s), 31 votes