I love intimacy on all levels.
I am communicative, warm, thoughtful, romantic, and kind...logical but passionate; tender but self-confident. I am proud of these traitsthough I take no credit for them: for most, it's simply the way I was "hard-wired" from birth.
I am looking to be part of a couple that is connected verbally and physically. Verbally, because articulating thoughts and feelings is interesting and constructive. Physically, because frequent casual touch is flattering and healthy, and provides the contimuum of warmth that makes sex sexy.
The depth of connection that I seek will almost certainly come from a woman whose is close to 50 years old or older. Id like to treasureand be treasured bysomeone who knows herself that well. (What is it that the NPR comedienne-lecturer says so well? Oh yes. Go into any large gathering of people, and youll find only 2 groups who are happy: everybody under 12
and everybody over 50!)
My Ideal Person:
I am moved by a woman who is comfortable with herself, and who has the kind of confidence that leads equally to her being kind and decisive. A woman who is direct, thoughtful, and a good communicator verbally and physically. An unrushed embracer, a snuggler, someone who reaches out to touch her man often, because its her idea, and it is rewarding to her to both give and receive this energy of connection.
Someone who fully experiences life's joysand takes the time to help others do so, because she believes it is one way to live gracefully.
Someone who is a lifelong learner and teacher.
When a couple's connection grows through the years, it manifests in a thousand ways: how they talk and when, the small ways they spontaneously touch in public, their knack for walking down the street with the coordinated timing and grace of a couple that might as well be dancing, and the joy with which each pursues an independent activity that the other admires.
|
322 Members Online NOW!
