I'm looking for someone to share my time with, do things with and get to know. If you're looking for the same, please feel free to drop me a note and say hi. Please know that I'm really more interested in someone who is confident in themself, not so much someone who feels like I need to fill their every moment of every day. Please don't misunderstand...I just think there should me time, you time and us time. I don't think that you should need me to complete you or you to complete me but instead for us to just enjoy getting to know each other. I'm pretty independent and have learned to do alot on my own. I realize that this doesn't appeal to everyone and I understand that. I do miss having someone in my life but it's going to take a very special someone to be able to accept me just the way I am. I want a friend most of all. I believe that's what all good relationships are based on anyway so why not just concentrate on that to start with and nothing more serious than just getting acquainted and then maybe see what happens.
What I'm looking for in a man is someone who likes to talk, listen, smile and laugh and just be himself. I don't want anyone to feel they have to change to suit me, just be who you are. I'd like to find a guy who's not looking for a serious relationship from the start but willing to share an intelligent conversation, not necessarily about anything in particular but just whatever comes up to get to know each other. This, over a nice dinner out or just taking a ride spending time enjoying the scenery sounds like the kind of thing that would be fun and enjoyable for both of us. I am a country girl who prefers the simple things in life so if you're looking for someone fancy, who's traveled the world and likes to eat at the finer restaurants or expects anything more then you might want to keep looking because that's not me.
And just so you know that when football season starts if you're not a Saints fan then I won't be available on the days they play. Sorry, but I love my Saints!
Thanks for stopping by! Judi
My Ideal Person:
I'm not sure exactly who the "ideal" person for me would be but I do know one thing and that is when I meet you I'll know you. Of course, it's going to take some time to get to know each other. I'm not the type to try to judge someone, whether they're right or wrong for me, until I get to know you a bit first.
Favorite television shows:
football, American Idol, Amazing Race, anything HGTV, some
sitcoms
Favorite films:
The Notebook, The Color Purple, Atonement
Favorite musicians or bands:
Wide variety, from Josh Groban to the oldies, just about
any! Not into heavy metal or .
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