I am a divorced retired self sufficient woman. Up until Valentines day of this year, I took care of my ill Mom for three years. It was the hardest job I ever had in my life but I would do it again in a heart beat just to have one more day with her.
I am a very simple lady who was married for 32 years and then finally got the nerve to leave it. I have been the happiest I have been in years. I like myself and don't mind being alone at all. I have three little yorkshire terriers as pets and they are the loves of my life.
There are days I stay home and enjoy my home and pets and then there are days I bum... thats the great thing about being retired and having no real responsibilities now. I can come and go pretty much as I please.
I enjoy going to antique stores, auctions, especially estate and farm auctions. I have a big interest in Native American and Amish cultures. In fact my home is partially decorated in Native American.
I am a kind , loving and compassionate woman, but I do not suffer fools easily. I hate any type of abuse what so ever. I am secure in myself and would hope the man I could become friends with would be the same.
Life is meant to live and have fun, so I do not appreciate any type of drama at all. I lived 32 years with any kind of drama you want.. and trust me.. it is so out of my life now.
As you have read, I am a plus sized woman but have been told by many that I am very pretty inside and out.. but that is something you will have to decide for yourself.
I love to cook if I have someone to cook for. I like sitting out on the deck at night, having a few drinks then going in to watch a good movie.. or just sitting and talking.
I also will take myself to the local casino's at least once a month just to go somewhere. I enjoy it and I don't have to think about a thing.
Can anyone explain to me why so many men on here are seperated and looking for women on here? Guys get rid of the baggage and get a divorce before you get involved with someone else. You are only making yourself look like idiots!!!!!
My Ideal Person:
Someone who is not married or seperated but totally free. Someone who can be a friend and lover at the same time. He has to be financially and emotionally independent as I only pay my own way. I do not need someone to compete with or depend on. I do well all by myself and I would like the person I would be with to be the same. Life is for living and having fun and enjoying who you are with. I don't need or want someone to take care of. It's hard enough taking care of yourself most times.
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