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otingocni09
All for the smile of it!
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Member Since: August 5, 2010

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otingocni09's Information:
 
Gender:   man
Birthdate:   January 11, 1954
(58 )
Lives in:   Ann Arbor, Michigan, United States
Relocate?:   Prefer not to say
Height:   5 ft 7 in / 170-172 cm
Body Type:   A little extra padding
Smoking:   I'm a heavy smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Race:   Caucasian
Speaks:   English
Education:   BA/BS (4 years college)
Marital Status:   Divorced
Interests:   Animals, Collectibles, Cooking/Baking, Computer Games, Crafts, Dancing, Gardening, Martial Arts, Nature/Ecology, Reading, Surfing the Internet
Religion:   Christian
Religion Important:   It is very important
Have Children:   Yes. We do not live together.
Children visit:   Visit sometimes
Grandchildren:   Yes
Active:   Moderately active
Living situation: Prefer not to say



   
58 year old man in Ann Arbor, Michigan, United States Looking For: Women

Profile for otingocni09
Shatze!

(German for "Sweetheart")

As silent the night comes . . .
so to us
thoughts enter mind.

Wanting,
waiting,
endlessly impatient,
'til the birds sing,
"Yonder rises the Sun!"

Thoughts all fulfilled
with touchings unique!
Damn!! It's only a dream!!!

Did you ever get that certain feeling that you feel when you are going to feel a feeling that you have never felt before?

One of the most talked about and least understood subject’s is the one of love. What it is and what causes it to happen are universal questions that have as many answers as there are opinions. Love is the fundamental human emotion for which no cure has been found . . . most likely because there can be no objective search. As with all emotions, including sheer joy, there is always a degree of pain. Love can hurt!

True love, in my opinion (I'm entitled, too), must include true friendship, especially with yourself. After all, one must love their self before attempting to love another. The key here, or one of them, is to communicate. Besides, talking it out gets the others' point of view. Just being able and willing to sit down and discuss the real issues that affect you in an honest, open, and personal manner can turn problems into challenges. Remember, a problem is something that just wanders around in your head, but a challenge is something that you both take an active part in.

"Since meeting you my capacity to learn has grown so . . . Thank You! You teach best what you most need to learn . . . never have I learned so much, talked so much, and listened so much."

There also needs to be a sense of spontaneity. A little reckless abandon is the 'spice of life!' Sometimes the situation calls for a snibble (a sneaky nibble) or a shoulder to cry on. Such is the emotion of love.

Sharing and caring are very close in meaning and also of great importance in any working relationship. They are not to be considered as a value of materialism. Not what is mine or yours, but what is ours that we can share and use together to accomplish a mutual need or a want. Helping another person with an absolute of living, like the dishes, usually only takes an investment of time and patience. Real people ask for opinions and/or advice.

"The simplest questions are the most profound. Where were you born? What are you doing? Where are you going? Think about these once in a while and watch your answers change."

Coupled with the emotional bond that exists between two people that care about each others' needs and wants is a strong need for a self awareness of the relationship with respect to where it has been, is, and going.

A very important part of a loving relationship is the art of touching. It must be gentle and tender, but always meant. It is nothing more than nonverbal communication.

"But when speech is silent, does a man project the great depth of his sensitivity. When I touch you, or kiss you, or hold you, I am saying a thousand words."

Love is where you find it and what you do with it after you have found it. Try feeling, talking, touching, sharing, and caring. Whether you are friends or lovers you must know and understand that the other person is an individual who is capable of making their own decisions and choices. Mutual love is nothing more than the realization of one's self combined with the needs and wants of another in unreserved and unconditional trust.

Your hand fits so nicely in mine and your skin is so soft. To lay beside you and feel your nearness . . . watching your chest rise and fall with every breath that I take. Our pulses quicken as our lips first meet . . . aaah!

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