My Ideal Person:
My ideal match would be tall, large-framed, verbally expressive, realistic ego, enjoy music, slow dancing and tend to spoil the woman in his life kind of guy for starters. One that sees beauty where most men don't. A man that is really serious about meeting and getting to know a woman in person in order to take that time and make that effort to get to know her better. We did not get to be this age without overcoming some things in life, or taking our lumps and bumps. Now is the time to get past the fact we're all a few pounds heavier, have a scar or two to help define our character, are a little bit set in our ways, but can still share where it counts the most and lastly, be realistic about what kind of person would REALLY make us happy and content each and every day, in good times and bad since we all can't look like a million, make a million, win a million or retire with a million.

I have found in my experience that truly beauty IS in the eye of the beholder. What my friend sees as sexy in a man sometimes I look at her and ask how can you think that. It only goes to show me that statement is completely true. Personally, I like the idea that the term "sexy" means so many different things to different people. It certainly lends true as well with that in mind that there is someone for everyone of us, the tough part is just finding them.